she is not my mom.....

I'll have to agree with you on the loud part getting on your nerves, loud people drive me nuts.. My last girlfriend was loud, get in a store and me 5 feet from her and she talked like I was 50 feet away... Thats also why I have a cat and not a dog-- bark-bark-bark-bark-bark!!! She sounds like a MOOCH to me just looking for a free ride, as for you living there---- Blood is thicker than water...