wondering what you guys would do....

Maybe I'm looking at it from the wrong angle. Certainly a different angle from the rest of ya'll who have replied above. The way I see it, he has just been manipulated into a position of having no choice but to accept the job and move his family. The new job is a lot more money. But it was offered by his FATHER-IN-LAW. Potential for big problems in the family if he doesn't take the new job. Or maybe I'm just way too cynical because of my own family.

im gonna have 2x this one... and congrats