If you have dealt with "Alltrim.com" I'd like to hear about it

Your spidey senses are correct. Make no mistake about though - his workmanship and product are/is top quality bar none, but you are right he is too full of himself and he is very, very, expensive.
I was in the middle of a deal with him, got his invoice, went to the bank, got the money order to buy one of his parts for sale and had just purchased an overnite envelope to send it in, and he sends me an email saying he changed his mind. Prick cost me over $100 on fees and I had nothing to show for it but a bad taste in my mouth. Some one else could pay for his stuff and give it to me for free and I wouldn't accept it - and I'm not kidding. He has zero people skills.
But, like I said he puts out a pretty excellent product ....... if you're willing to wait 6 months to a year.
Daryl