Had a discussion with the wife...

OK I am at work so I cant read all the replies but here is my .02

As far as pictures of the past, this is a big bone with my wife and I. I have pictures in a chest of me and my ex wife. I never take them out and they are there for my children when I croak. My wife thinks I should get rid of them or give them to my children now. Both children are still young and unsettled so I hesitate to do that.

Bottom line is the pics are her property. If he cant deal with it, he needs to go.

Her past is her past, it is none of his business. If he cant deal with it, he may need to rethink his relationship with her.

Now if he thinks she will cheat on him, he shouldnt be there in the first place.
Again my opinion.