It is pretty much her regular behavior. She was living on the Western side of Washington, we live near Spokane. But since she has quit her job she moved to Phoenix to be with Chapalito. She keeps talking about settling down, but apparently is not very serious about it. I also have failed to mention that the city job she walked out on, she was only working 4 hours a day. However, she had an active workmans comp claim and she was getting comped for the other 4. Anyway, she sees nothing wrong with her behavior. Somebody had mentioned perhaps abandonment issues. I talked to my wife about this today. There Dad was a Field worker. Often was gone during the week, but always home on the weekends. Most summers they would spend a month or so with him, near one of the Farms he was working. Several summers, he would take a month or so off from work and take everyone down to where he grew up, near Mexico City. She honestly does not think she is like this due to anything from there upbringing. Like I said earlier, I have had very little contact with her, but my impression of her is she is very phony. She is trying to lose her past, more like her heritage. There Dad was first generation out of Mexico. My wife, Ernie and her other sister are proud of who they are, and where they are from, where this sister is not. From what I have known of her, she has never been religious. But Chapaltio is a apparently a religious church going typr of guy, so know every time she emails/calls Ernie she is quoting the bible. From what little my wife knows of Chapalito, he is far from an upstanding type of guy. He is known to use girlfriends for what he can and then just kind of toss them aside. Wife had made mention of one of his previous Girlfriends putting up the money for a deposit on the new car, and once the furnacing was taken care of he sent her packing......maybe a rotten thing for me to say, hell maybe not because my wife has said it also, but maybe in some sick sort of way they deserve each other.