That is the thing, there is always a next drama with her. I more or less keep my mouth shut, and I do try to watch what I say. Ernie's comments about her sister are from the hip, that is just the way she is. And she expects the same from me. The fallout.....Ernies sister has said these 2 are fighting on a regular basis and she is already talking about tossing him out. We are 1500 miles away, there is another blood sister that lives in Phoenix, so I sure if things go south Ernies other sister will bear the brunt of it. What makes this a challenge for me is my family background, we were far from a close knit family. Our family more or less fell apart. Long boo hoo story, but due to this story I was unaware my Dad had died until after the fact. And I found out that my mom had died when I got a letter from a lawyer about her will. My sister and I had a major falling out, and thanks to this I became the outcast, more or less, of my family. I have not spoken to my sister in the last 8 or 9 years. Last time I seen her she was in a convience store by my house, I walked in when she was at the counter and she took off running out the door with the people she with saying there is my psycho brother. And if I have my way I will never speak to her again. Not to sound corny, but other than my wife and this damn pc connecting me to you guys I have no family........