Had a discussion with the wife...

I mentioned the abandonment issues and this is almost a textbook scenario of what can generate them, especially in young children who don't fully understand why dad can't be around all the time. They don't understand that dad needs to make a living. They only understand that dad's not here when they skin their knee or needed a bicycle tire fixed, or he's not around to explain why a boyfriend blew off a date to hang with his buddies... or just be around for a hug every so often.




This is the exact type of "a**hole" guy I spoke of in my earlier post. I suspect this relationship is based on orgasms and will quicky fall to the wayside when she finds another a**hole who can give her a better pickle tickle than Chapalito, if she hasn't already because of the picture incident.
My wife is pretty sure that her sisters issues are not from abandonment issues, but it is purely just her opioion, more than likely based oh how she feels. Funny you should mention the sexual aspect of things. When all of this stuff first transpired that was the very first thing that Socorho told Ernie was how great he was in bed. One of the few times I have been around both my wife and her sister at the same time I did hear her say that if her boyfriend does not rock her world sexually, he is sent packing. I appreciate your thoughtful input.....