My wife is pretty sure that her sisters issues are not from abandonment issues, but it is purely just her opioion, more than likely based oh how she feels. Funny you should mention the sexual aspect of things. When all of this stuff first transpired that was the very first thing that Socorho told Ernie was how great he was in bed. One of the few times I have been around both my wife and her sister at the same time I did hear her say that if her boyfriend does not rock her world sexually, he is sent packing. I appreciate your thoughtful input.....