Step Daughter problems (need advise)

At 19 its still pretty young. But your wife has to understand that it doesnt help her to allow her to be the way she is. Bring her on here to hear some of the stories these guys have posted maybe your wife will get a clue. She needs to be working if nothing else. And helping out. One way to help your wife see the light You yourself stop cleaning up and helping out. When things start to pile up or your wife gets tired then she will understand