UPDATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
so, ebay gave me a credit for the listing fees, and the selling fees.
so, i relisted it again..................
now, i jump on to see if there was any bids............... sure, someone joined ebay today, hit buy it now, and sent me the same scam shipping bullshit message that the first one did. now ebay is telling me that i am beat for the listing fees gnmornhjgtokdnfbgiortnjgnodfngjnbBAGS!