Please do not feel bad. You were only giving me a lead and it was totally up to me to do my due diligence. You have been a great online friend and I hope to meet you in person some day.
I feel bad as I recommended Jim. Mostly because I have seen so many trips he has taken on this site.
My apologies for recommending him as you have had a bad experience.
I hope someone can help you get it home safe and sound.