I need help......bad

You need to get a factory service manual, either on CD/ DVD, or printed. In the meantime, even though it's incorrect, the free (did I mention FREE) service manual download posted on this site could give you some insight:

http://www.forabodiesonly.com/mopar/showthread.php?t=132309&highlight=manual,+download

and "this other place" has diagrams that might be of some help:


http://www.mymopar.com/index.php

On the left menu, select "tools and reference" and go to "wiring diagrams" which leads you to these:

http://www.mymopar.com/downloads/1976/76ValiantA.jpg

http://www.mymopar.com/downloads/1976/76ValiantB.jpg

If you look at the '72 download manual posted above, look up the diagrams for the bulkhead connector. THIS MAY BE DIFFERENT than yours but will illustrate the point. There are three sections to the bulkhead connector, and ALL THREE are unique, which means that you can NOT screw it up. Only the correct harness will plug into the correct section, and in the correct manner!!!

Below is a screenshot right out of that manual I posted. This is a photo of the inside and outside of the bulkhead for a '72. NOTICE that there are "keys" in different places, thus making each connector unique Also notice they are notated alphabetically.



Now if you go back up the page and look at the "My Mopar" diagrams I posted for your year, you'll see they are not drawn quite as detailed, but still show the same alphabetic notation:

This is a screenshot of part of that diagram. The righthand side is the firewall mount, the left side is what connects to the firewall end of the harness



For example, you said you had the wiper harness hooked up. If you look at the "My Mopar" diagrams, you'll see the connector is "ABCD EFGH" I don't know how the connector is oriented in your vehicle, but in mine it's the top section of the connector.