I don't know what to do.

I see a few people in my walk of life that are Bi-polar, and they can self destruct there own life and the people around them that care for them, Like said above it's time to remove these things from your life:blackeye:
Even just for a week or two gunbunny...
Simplify your life and take a leave of absents and find a good place to set up a tent and let the others fend for there self letting them know that you need to humble your life :home: and they need to know you care for them but it's time to step back and take a deap breath and look at your own life....
This is not asking to much of anyone :home: and i hope they care enough to see that this is something that needs to be dun..
It's tuff love, but close your mind (if you can) in there problems in life and concentrate on yours :bear:.
I lost 4 family member in a year and all about 2 ta three months apart it seems:sad7: and this is what I did.
Prayer and walking wooded paths and putting things in perspective that my health had to come first and care and love myself so I could help and love others and let the BS the world hands to us behind me.:occasion:
I came back home standing tall and had a round table with my family and set my law down...... This is my life and I will support and care for everyones needs the best I can and it's my way or the HWY so to speak :home:.
AND! I don't help others that will not help there self.
Love them and give them direction is all you can..
but you can not do this untill you back away and take a close look at yourself and take all this stress out of your life.
Prayers going out for you gunbunny, and if they don't under stand what you are doing and what your needs are in life at this time they need to know..
and they should support it if they care..
if they don't they don't care and are childish and needs a tast of reality
I take a week of leave most every year just 7 miles away from home in a park when I feel I am not being taking seriously or I am :?
We all have an opinion and feelings

A good cleansing and being absent from there life may give them time to reflect a bit of there own life and what they are putting on your shoulders at this time in life.
The 21 year old needs to get a life and fend for his self...Tuff Love works in the long run, When you see him again talk to him like a man and if he is not ready show him the door. :yawinkle: This will be reality at it's best :home:
I hope I have not rambled on to much, but I just could not let this go this morning bunny.