Is that those lack of respect kids are being raised by lack of respect parents.
If I found out one of my kids did something like that I'd haul their *** back over there for a nice big apology.
Not necessarily, I raised my kids to respect others and they did for the most part. Kids will be kids though and some of them you can tell em till you're blue in the face and they don't listen.
My girls were home on day by themselves and decided to prank a lady down the road that had some horses for sale. They called her and set up a time to see them. The lady ,who I happen to know, was talking to me about a call she had gotten and the people never showed up. I asked her if she knew the number, and it was my home number, imagine that. I sent them down there one day under another pretense, and let her know they were on their way, and told her to royally chew them out. They came home feeling a little low.
We also taught them not to steal, but all three of them chose to do the opposite until they got caught.
So you can't always blame the parent for what a child or young adult does or doesn't do, and I believe we are kinda caught up in this in society today.