Can someone explain why would I ruin the front pump if I bolt converter to flexplate first then hook it to the engine?
Because there are 2 sets of splines and a set of lugs to align. There's no possible way you can align all 3 by first bolting it to the engine and trying to install it.
Regarding to fishy68, I have to install the converter first then bolt to the engine. I dont get this, if do it this way, how do you tight the 4 flexplate lug to the converter?