I am sick of being sick

I can't say I know how you feel, but I'm turning 20 in a month. I've gotten into it with my parents in the past, but I sure as hell have not been spoiled. The luxurys I have, I bought. My parent's refused to buy us ipods, game systems, brand name clothes etc. I had to buy my Xbox 360, iPod, stereo, and my most recent pair of shoes with my own money. I've also had to pay for my two courses at UW Waukesha and fix my car. My parents helped, but what they lent me, I had to pay back asap. Thanks to my tax rebate I was able to finish paying them back in May rather than July. In short, I've had to pay for a lot of things on my own.

I have mouthed off to my parents a couple times and both times have gotten, "you wanna move out?" as an answer. I don't have enough to do so, so I shut up and stew silently and irritated. So yes, I don't know how good my advice will be but all I can say is tough love. Force her to do it on her own. My dad did the same when I crashed my caprice. It was, fix it yourself or find another way to get yourself to school. It seems like from what I've seen every time I hear about this, the dads are trying to be the nice guys and are being taken advantage of. You can't do that. I know it may sound harsh and that I'm just a kid, but you have have tough love. They'll just keep doing it over and over again until you either cut them off or they realize what jerks they've been. I don't want to presume to sound like a know it all 20 yo, but I feel like that is the only way possible to ever break the cycle.