I am sick of being sick

Good God!!

I too can relate to how you feel. Im another disabled person and I feel really rotten most of the time already,never mind doing free work on a relatives car.

I think we men often get forgotten by our women folk in how giving we really are. I know a father should stand by his blood through thick and thin and I applaude you for it. But she must have some respect for you,or I simply would not do as she wishes.

Being 20, I think she does need to grow up some. Cutting the apron strings will do that..

Maybe an independant third party like a counsellor will help. Talk your wife into it and get her to see reason.

Because if your child wont give you some repect first and foremost,then you must bring this change yourself. For YOUR mental health.