LCA pivots

the car needs to be at ride height with the full weight,motor in,before you do your torque specs.or you will be doing the lowers again

Are you sure about that? The manual states that everything that I have done so far should be done with the car raised on jack stands - ride height and everything else is set after the control arms, struts, etc are installed correctly and the car is sitting on the tires.

Obviously I will be retorquing everything after the first few 100 miles, but I really do not see how you could install the control arms with the car at ride height and full weight.