paint problem need help please

What happens is that as the clear coat and paint is degassing(~90 days after paint) its extremely soft, dirt, dust and whatever else settles on the car if left there for an extended period of time will sink into the clear. About the only thing you can do now, is wash it, use a clay bar to try and remove as much particulate as possible, and proceed to spend hours cutting and buffing the hell out of it and pray that your painter didn't short change you on how many coats of clear he sprayed.