Desperation
I primed the motor before I started it and it was getting oil to the top of the engine, it was built by a reputable guy so I'd like to "assume" that its not an oiling issue its strange I put the new cam in quite as can be.
All good for the break in etc I finally drive the car about 3 blocks and its starts to fade in and out a bit. So I figure If I give them all another 1/4 turn down it should be set?
Few weeks pass I get time to do it the car hasn't been touched since then re-set them and it almost seems worse now, Engine makes great oil pressure about 70-75psi cold idle and about 30-35 hot idle. Running 10w-40 castrol in it.