DO i PUT THIS MEMBER ON BLAST OR NOT???????????????????

Sounds more like a "failure to communicate" and I put the blame on him. Seems like he was making convenient assumptions about unspoken contracts. I see it a lot with people, especially the new smart phone generation. You state something very clearly, usually in a paragraph or two, asking maybe 4 questions and they just answer "yes". They can't even read the whole first sentence. Simple laziness, and they turn around and fault me for being too wordy.