Memike, this is the first time I have seen this thread but I read it from start to finish and it is truly the best story I have ever read. It sure shows what a great bunch of people are still in the world and especially on this site. I have been helped by complete strangers besides the multitude of friends and family when I have had tragedies happen in my life. I will remember and be thankful for them the rest of my life as I am sure you will be too. I know from being on this site and observing I can tell you are a very outstanding person and I have never seen anything negative come from you. Sorry I wasn't on here when all this took place but if I can ever help you let me know. Enjoy Victoria for years to come and maybe we will meet up one day,Joe