Ok, What have I done now... (904 problem?)

It sure sounds like a restricted intake at the filter somewhere, since it happened at the exact time that the new filter and pan were installed.

If it's currently overfull, then you are not sucking up air as fluid is higher than the filter with normal levels.

Restricted at the filter is is my bet.

see, im kind of leaning towards this myself, because you said it has been working fine up until you put this kit on. you didnt run it long or hard enough with low fluid to hurt it. and it would seem to me, if the bands or clutches got burned up, the fluid would show signs of this.