Sometimes I just want to give up!

Borrowing against a 401 k may seam like a good idea now but probably wont down the road. Its hard to stay focused on whats really important. Cars are toys. Fringe benefits. Dont how old you are, but the at 48 I have realized the hurdles life puts up in front of you never stop coming and often keep getting higher. Pull yourself up by your boot straps, keep a stiff upper lip, hold your head up, never let em see you sweat......yada yada yada........ it all works out in the end. LOL