F&R shock recommendations

The Edelbrocks are being DIScontinued! Pisser, huh?
I run KYBs on the Charger. Some of the respected chassis and suspension guys say that they are junk and that Bilstiens are the way to go, but until I can find $400 in an old pair of pants, I'll continue to ride with what I have.
The KYBs are supposed to be too stiff for decent handling. That may be true, since my car sometimes skips over bumps instead of soaking them up.
Greg