So, I can call him, "you little bastard?"

Looks like just another hit and run victim to me.
I wish her luck in finding a good father for the children regardless of how she goes about it. It takes very special kind of man to love and support a couple of kids that are not his own. How do I know this ?
I was/am one of those kids.
Fathers Day approaching along with the majority of the comments in this thread have me praying for this gal, her kids, and a bunch of you guys.

Redfish, you no doubt will enjoy and understand this song:

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BjO1F6oCab8"]Brad Paisley - He Didn't Have To Be - YouTube[/ame]

As you say - it takes a special man.

regards,Rod