You and her are still young and have not developed good communication skills. If either one of you can't sit down and have a conversation without blowing up then that's what I'm talking about. Might as well give it shot so sit her down and discuss what is going on with you (what you have told us) and ask her "how can we fix it so you are happpy and I'm happy" Heck man you going to have to kiss her *** if you want to be happy so might as well give her more room to work with than you. Women are like that.
Now what I really want to say is that I've been down this road before. Married and divorced so the best thing I can tell you is don't ever get pu**y whip, keep your dick in your pants, and go do what the hell you want to do whenever the hell you ready to do it! After my divorce I have plenty of time to do what I want, got frickn money in my pocket, built my cuda into what it is today, built a nice shop last year in the back yard, bought a brand new frickn motorcycle that I ride to work and on weekends up in the mountains. I mean I could not done anything like this with her *** around sucking my wallet dry and trying to tell me "you not spending enough time me" BS!
Get out and live your life bro! Pu**y isn't everything!
I know 3 guys who are married and I swear they have mentioned to me "If I ever get out of this one you better believe there will not be another one!"