Can I rant

Dart_Doctor said
been there done that ! I had a good friend tell me this ... Tell her the car was here before you and it will still be here after you if you want it that way .. Wether it works or not ask him

abodyjoe said
how old are the two of you??

personally i think you need to find another girl.. how the hell have you stayed with her 3 years? you think its ever going to get better? hell no it isn't.

abodyjoe said
sounds like its too late for that...

seriously man your 22 years old. the last thing you need is a chick thats is giving you crap like this already. it will not get better. if its like this at 22 oh man just imagine what it will be at 32 or 42. it will always be something. sounds like your gonna have to learn the hard way.

AdamR said
I had a girl like that when I was your age. Luckily she slept with a friend of mine and she became his problem. My wife hardly ever bitches about any of my numerous expensive and time consuming hobbies.

E eey oxy quoted above hit the mail on the head and Marla d as well.

I can tell ya what to do for your long term peace of mind. It so far all I have read from you is a defense against what the been there and some that all ready know. So, basically, IMO, your screwed because you will not leave her and will take her bitching and live in hell for it.

Much like AdamR & his spouse, mine never bitchs a out it since it is MY MONEY I'm spending on my only hobby. She is never ignored and never wants for nothing ever.

Been married since I'm 22 & I'm 46 now, still spinning wrenchs on my free time.