Can I rant

I edited the f bomb out...no harm no foul but please be a Lil more careful in the future....as far as sendin her to hang with her girlfriends...the only time you want to do that is when she thinks your a knight in shining armour...you get them together when your in the dawghouse and the trouble is gonna get worse and real quick....

Brother, ain't that the truth.

I don't mean to offend the younin's here, but at twenty nothing, everything seems epic. "This is the GREATEST band in the world", this is the GREATEST car in the world", "this is the GREATEST gal in the world," "This is the WORST time in my life". Whatever and so on. I'm getting that things aren't as bad as you are saying and maybe you just had a moment to let off some steam. Maybe?

Here's an Idea. If she is really complaining about you not spending time with her, tell her working on the car is your form of stress relief. The only other thing that will help with the stress would be if she followed you into the bedroom. The worst that could happen is in a few weeks you'll both be in great shape and she won't be on you about going to the gym.