Can I rant
i got involved with a woman like that. she loved my cars and what i was doing with them when we first got together. i even bought her a 69 super bee (of her own choice) so we could build our stuff together, she knew cars are my passion going into it. it gradually went down hill. she lost interest and got very jealous of the time i spent on my 70 bee. it got to the point i wasnt "allowed" to do anything without hearing a bunch of bitching. eventually everything ended up getting sold because i tried to put her first and show her how much i "loved" her. biggest mistake of my life. i let her change who i really am. by the time i came to this realization, i didnt even have spare tire to my name. i kicked that chick to the curb and to this day, i havent been able to make up for everything ive lost, but im getting there. dont let her change who you are and what you love to do. you will regret it down the road. once they start bitching. it usually doesnt go away until there is a real heart to heart.