Can I rant

''She'll do anything for me''
I call BS on that or this rant wouldn't be here.
She sounds like a control freak to me, my first wife was one too.
I got out of cars for 8 years and sold some stuff off to make her ''happy''. It didn't work, as a matter of fact, it just added to the resentment towards each other. We split up a long time ago, and i couldn't be happier. I didn't realize it at the time but i do now.
I got back into cars again and now i'm much happier with a new spouse that understands my needs and i understand hers.
You will not change, and she will not change.
So you need to ask yourself, am i willing to put up with this any longer, or should i cut my losses and move on?
It's hard to have a solid relationship if both of you are unhappy.
You are both young, and it would be easy to move on.
Maybe both of you are too young and immature to realize this......
Don't lose yourself and your dreams over a girlfriend/boyfriend.
Do the math and be brutally honest with yourselves.