Biggest load of bull sh*t you will ever hear. You get the fire knocked from your ***, and I mean seriously knocked from your *** and hit rock bottom you can change....if you want to. if this were not the case i would really like to hear how i went from the one that started damn near every fight in his first marriage to only starting one in close to 13 years. People can change, if they have a reason to..........and the desire....... can instill a change....