wife talkin divorce , prayers needed

married 15 years , 3 kids 3,8 & 10 , i hurt my back a year ago & been outa work , 5 damaged discs & on opiates fors full year & im detoxing right now . Hoping to be back to work in a month or so , No unfaithfullness or abuse , my parents divorced when i was 4 yrs old . This is ripping me apart inside , please keep me and my family in your prayers......only God can fix this

Two years past a very expensive and painful ending of a 12 year marriage.
I have two children age 14 and 10 and no matter how much the divorce hurts and cost, it's the pain of not seeing my children. Pray for the best, plan for the worst..

My best advise would be to talk about the problems and try working it out. Don't leave this up to faith, you have the power to change her options. Talk about what can be done to reconsider, for Christ sakes the poor children. I know with a little talk to can help save your marriage.


How bad are you addicted to the opiates? If so is this a major issue in your marriage? Maybe you might need more than support that just quiting on you own. There are non-opiate meds the doctor can put you on to get off the opiates.I have seen what drugs can do to a marriage but I do understand your pain issues too. What has been done to correct you disc problems?Opiates won't fix you damaged back and if that is all they have been doing then you need another doctor NOW.

The bold statements above Xs2.

Prayers offered for the entire family.