wife talkin divorce , prayers needed

Man I am married 22 years. Not only married 22 years to same woman but we actually were divorced for about 3 years where we were legally and than stayed separated for about a years and a half before we started to date again.Now remarried and about every 5 years or so we have a rough patch.Than one of us takes a vacation for a week or two.Than we still seem to find that as much as i want to use the mute button on the tv remote and pray like crazy it would just work to provide some relief.But truth be told somehow we find as much as we irrate each other we still have a strong love between us.

Man this sounds like your in need of a reminder for you two to find that reason why you have became a team and started your tribe.Long weekend with no radio no tv no internet.You need case of wine (cheap stuff work just as good),May be some rubbing oil,fresh strawberries with powdered sugar.and a couple of good ground rule.And No kids.
You might want 2 pens and paper start writing down pros cons and things that cause the tension.Get it on the table than fix it.Most of all lots of good talking and under no sercumstances no blaming or yelling (unless its sexual).Got now talk to her.She still loves you.