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"only God can fix this", however most likely you will be given direction, for the work to be done.

I too have suffered from serious back problem. Being in chronic, can result in crabbiness. Being aware helps, I second guess my actions and words, it helps.

I used diet, tai-chi, exercise (mainly walking) and acupressure to heal. I built, back and stomach muscles, to support the spine. Learning to breathe correctly with exercise is a great way to release pain.

Just trying to help you, by letting you know, what works for me.

May God bless you.