I went to paypal and this what I recieved:
We're sorry, but this transaction cannot be disputed because it is not a purchase of goods or services. Please contact the recipient directly.
So I learned something when you use paypal don't ever put the item as a gift as alot of the users ask you to do that way they won't loose the money when you try to dispute the claim.
I also just sent him another PM stating that if he does not respond I will post everything on this page. This has been going on for a while now (since Oct).
For what it is worth I have kept all my PM's.
The individual live in SO Cal as one of you have asked.