Never figured I'd be driving over to a girl's house so she could dump me

I'm with the crowd here..you're young and have plenty of time to find the right girl. This one didn't work out, and even though you're hurting right now, you'll come to realize that she wasn't the right girl for you, and you'll know that when the right one does come into your life!!

If you can see the emotional baggage she's holding, you're better off without her. Take the hurt and use it as a learning experience, and use it to guage your future candidates. You'll be surprised to find when the right girl comes along, you won't have to work so hard to keep her, and how right that'll feel!!

Good luck Bro, and many happy hours searching for Mrs. Right!! Geof