Door Alignment Problem - 65 Dart Convertible

I hung the doors on my car today and I'm finding it impossible to get good alignment with the rear quarter. I have a pretty firm understanding of how the adjustments work, I've read all the posts I could find on FABO and even watched an old mopar training video on door adjustment.

My problem is that the bottom rear corner of the door is sticking out too far from the car. I have the strike adjusted for good alignment at the top of the door which puts the bottom of the door out almost 1/4" from the quarter.

In the front, I have the top of the fender out as far as I can get from the cowl and I have the top front of the door adjusted flush with the fender. The gap between the top of the door and the cowl is borderline too big as it sits.

If I align the bottom front of the door with the rocker and front fender it pushes the back corner of the door out almost a 1/4 inch from the quarter. I can adjust the bottom front of the door in far enough to almost correct the problem at the back but then the door is recessed quite a bit relative to the rocker and it looks really bad.

I should mention that the car is on a rotisserie. It's been media blasted and primed. The doors are not original to the car but they're pretty straight and they've also been media blasted and primed.

I've seen some other threads describing this same problem. Seems like it's a common problem, but none of the threads had any advice other than the obvious door adjustment steps.

It seems like my options are to bend the door to pull the bottom rear corner in, or push the top of the rear quarter out (it is a convertible). How common is it to need to bend a door like this to get things to line up?