what causes this to happen

I have a manual choke on it and it is not hooked up because I only drive it in the summer.

Ah, that would cause the symtoms you are experiencing.:banghead:

1-2 pumps and it should fire with no choke and just require feathering of the pedal to keep it runnign until it gets some heat in it. I've never run a choke on any of my Mopars, Past 2 carbs had lilled airhorns.

well that is what I thought too. what can you do to keep the fuel from going back to the tank. .

They do make one way valves

It isnt boiling out it is because the carb sits and doesnt have fuel bowls like holleys.

Carter style carbs are way worse than holleys at boiling off fuel becaseu they don't have an airspace under the bowls.

I am a little scared to run an electric pump. had an instance when I was a teen on my Chevelle where it didn't turn off and caught fire. of course I am sure they have improved them in the last 40 years.

If the ignition or triggering switch is on they run, so does a mechanical pump if the engine stays running. There are some safteys that can be wired/installed into the system but they would fall in that above and beyond realm.