anybody got kids, past or present i got questions

Ist thing is for you and the bride to agree on whatever you decide. It doesnt matter what we say here, it is her you have to convince. These are 6 and 7 year old kids...my god there age isnt even double digits!!..I have been a stepdad and a dad...youngest right now is 21. I didnt always do what I was told the 1st time at that age. If I got caught for everything I did wrong or for not listening, I wouldnt be around right now.