won't go in gear

I did not catch the the issue in reverse also, so yeah no synchro issue there.

The pilot bushing being to tight could be the issue but i seen you had a input for a alignment tool. I would measure the two inputs and see if the one in the transmission is bigger for some reason. I have had to fit the bushing after installing them into the crankshaft with a flap wheel because they are to tight. If you are able to put the transmission in flush with out resistance I would not think the pilot is the problem but if your using the bolts to pull it up tight then the pilot is to tight.