Hard to keep going sometimes

I would tell your wife to get a better job until you get things sorted out in your life. She should understand what she got herself into and be willing to take the bull by the horns for a while.

Things are only going to get worse. So what you need to do is get a recliner and lay back with a couple of cases of beer for about a year and watch speed vision. Medical Marijuana is another choice you could look into.

Good luck with your problems. One thing you have to look forward to is life goes bye pretty quick.