exactly ....i didnt mean to come off scarcastic in my earlier posts ....but you should have the influence to show her that it is much worse out there.
a good household in America with a functional family is nothing to sneeze but soooo many dont see it.
some members may have to compromise more than other members ...but so what ....the collective good of a family is more important than the individual good in most cases. any good wife, parent or husband needs to realize that to make it all work at times.