Why do people Piss and Moan?

Sounds spoiled to me too , in my case my wife [of 26 years] don't work she stays home and takes care of the house and dog, two weekends a month are her weekends [for garage sale shopping,flea market ect.] the other two are my car stuff weekends. She gets an allowance and that's it [been that way for years] I pay my bills and buy food first every payday then she gets her allowance and the extra money gets saved for fuel and needed grocerys till next payday. My cuda is a luxury playtoy that gets maintained and gets new stuff after everything else is taken care of when needed. I don't think that your going to change her, she sounds set in spoiled mode and anything you do to disrupt that will cause your life to be even more of a living hell!!