Am I wrong?

Doug,
I feel just like you. I have people want me to do what I pay other people to do for me yet they don't comprehend it when I don't want to work on their stuff. If I do work on someone else's stuff to help them out, it has to be on my schedule and my terms. Jumping through hoops to work on non-emergency things just doesn't work for me anymore. If it is an emergency I am there to lend a hand.

I have a great guy that helps me out and I will always do everything I can to repay him but at the same time I always teach him how to do it because there are times I just can't do much. He has learned a lot over the years and is there getting his hands dirty.