Sibling issues

I agree with Back in Time. You have to follow your heart and what is best for you. I also understand that your mom is very important to you and you want to take care of her. Now I dont know the specifics of what is wrong with your mom, and I dont expect you to tell them to a bunch of guys you dont know. I was just thinking, have you ever looked into maybe having your mom move to Florida with you? I dont know if this is possible, financially, health wise, and many other reasons. Its only a thought, I wish you the very best and I hope this works out for you!