I swear if I didnt love her

As a father I have to say I would be pissed about it as well, and frankly the way your carrying on about it I wouldn't be to fond of her choices. You might be a perfectly fine young man and might be respectful as well, just don't know you and not judging you just saying.

I don't really understand the point of this post to be honest, you had sex with his daughter, a potential life changing event while he is trying to put her through college and make sure she can have a future, and your arguing with him via text message. Are you willing and able to support her and a child? Is the relationship that serious, would you commit To marrying her? Continue her education? Your comment of it's what people do or whatever it was doesn't justify it.