I swear if I didnt love her

Probably because it ‘s what his generation does. At least there seems to be some degree of anonymity here. At least it’s not on facebook or youtube.
I hope.
And haven’t we seen older people post things just about as foolish on here?
That being said, I say if you care more about her than you do yourself and she feels the same way about you, do the right thing and marry her.
If you are old enough to have sex, you are old enough to get married.
At least get engaged. Get her father’s blessing.
Make peace with him if possible. He probably will be in the picture for a long time.
Better to have him as a supporter rather than an enemy.
Show him you can be responsible for your actions.

Signed Dear Abby.
(Apologies to John Prime)







As a father I have to say I would be pissed about it as well, and frankly the way your carrying on about it I wouldn't be to fond of her choices. You might be a perfectly fine young man and might be respectful as well, just don't know you and not judging you just saying.

I don't really understand the point of this post to be honest, you had sex with his daughter, a potential life changing event while he is trying to put her through college and make sure she can have a future, and your arguing with him via text message. Are you willing and able to support her and a child? Is the relationship that serious, would you commit To marrying her? Continue her education? Your comment of it's what people do or whatever it was doesn't justify it.