eBay frustration

I have noticed now on ebay the extra charges as well. Anything im interested in i always email seller first, make sure it goes U>S post and a complete total before i nuy. I state in my email i will bid but if there happens to be any extra charges i will not fullfill my end......So far so good. Mind you its only been 2 transactions and they seem to be very understanding. JM2C and i also agree with shipping something for $20 thats only $5 but watch out..:protest:shipping and HANDLING charges can apply:protest: