***Update 12/12/13 Issue Resolved***

It's not that hard to keep people updated and take 30 seconds to respond when you see a new message alert pop up. It's especially frustrating as the person who is waiting for a reply can see that the other one is or has been online and active. That's when it makes you feel like you are being blown off and when the frustration starts to set in.
If you say you are going to ship it tomorrow, then you should ship it tomorrow or at least send an update if you can't for some reason... or at the very least, have the courtesy to reply when the person asks for an update.
I've not been here long but have been doing quite a bit of buying so far.

Most people are pretty good about that stuff, I think.

The OP here has not gotten a single response from the sound of it so i think he is right to be feeling blown off. I'll bet the communication was going flawlessly up to the point of sending his money off!